I have a new game I play. I don’t really have a name for it yet, but I would like to encourage all the men reading to give it a shot.
Next time you see an attractive girl, either on the street or public transit or in a shopping mall, don’t check her out. Instead, pay attention to all the men around her and watch to see how many of them are looking at that girl: either a fleeting glance, or a long awkward stare.
Do it with a wide variety of girls, dressed in a wide variety of ways and in a wide variety of settings.
Now ask yourself: how comfortable would you be walking down the street knowing everyone you went past was looking at you.